It Fits Him Well

It’s graduation season. Except this year looks a bit different than season’s past. Even so, my son was very excited to try on his cap and gown after we made our way through the school car line to pick it up having to adhere to social distancing recommendations. Both of us have worked hard to make this happen. I have advocated tirelessly for services and supports for his success. It’s difficult to tell how much George understands the consequences of graduating from high school. I’m sure he senses a change. I proudly posted this picture on Facebook and I was struck by a comment that was made. A friend stated that the cap and gown “fit him well”. I thought about that comment rolling it over in my mind for several days considering all aspects and perspectives of it. Physically the cap and gown absolutely fit him well. But, beyond the outward appearance, beneath the fabric, and below the cap is where the true fit can be found. George was molded and fitted for Christ long before his birth. He was created with and for a purpose. Down syndrome didn’t change that. 


A quote by J.C. Ryle brings to mind the extent of what clothing can truly represent. “Never is a man….rightly clothed till he puts on the Lord Jesus Christ”. Romans 13:14 states to “clothe yourself with the presence of the Lord Jesus Christ.” While caps and gowns represent the completion of 12 years of schoolwork and preparation for the future, “having on” the Lord Jesus Christ carries with it much further reaching ramifications extending to eternity. For George, graduation can be seen as a steppingstone on his ongoing gospel-sharing journey. 

None of us can predict how God will use us to impact others. George’s path has guided him to surprising places and offered unanticipated opportunities. He’s carried Jesus to AA meetings where he had been invited to offer a closing prayer. A prayer that influenced many men on their journey of recovery. Being clothed in Christ eliminates judgement. It’s filtered out leaving acceptance and love. 

Watching George walk across the stage in his cap and gown will most certainly bring a sense of pride to me. But knowing that he is clothed in Christ fills me with a sense of awe. 

It fits him well

Author: vapiper

From Air Force Med Tech to Registered Nurse, my almost 30 years as a professional nurse has taken me from military to hospital to nursing home to insurance company. My experience as an advocate in the disability community was born when my son Andrew began struggling with his education and grew when my son George came into the world with a little something extra- Trisomy 21 or more commonly known as Down Syndrome. My advocacy led me to return to school to get my Masters in Special Education and continued with positions at LifeLine, Inc., the ARC of Hamilton County, and the ARC of Tennessee. I have served on multiple local and state-wide boards through the years and continue to be one of LifeLine’s Parent Mentors. I have helped write curriculum as well as trained families, educators, and medical personnel on advocacy and transition topics. In 2018, based on my personal life experiences, and led by God, I combined my training experience and furniture refinishing hobby and began a ministry to women struggling to understand who they are in Christ. Ashes to Beauty is based on Isaiah 61:3. I live in Georgia and am the proud mom of four amazing children-Helen, Sean, Andrew, and George. I am blessed to have twelve grandchildren and one great grandson to make his appearance in October 2023.